Some men will shower a woman with gifts hoping that she will like him more because she will be impressed that he is spending money on her. This could not be farther from the truth. By giving a girl gifts all the time men are sending her the message that they have to something to compensate for.
Gifts girls like to get from guys:
Not the message you want to be sending.
Only give gifts on holidays, birthdays, etc. for the first 6 months. After that a random gift every 5 or 6 months. Why so infrequently? Because by giving her a lot of gifts you are spoiling her and she won't appreciate the ones you give her as much. In effect, the more you give gifts, the less special each gift is.
Put thought into your gifts, the best gifts are ones that demonstrate you were listening (without being cheesy and/or mushy). She will love it if you picked up on a subtle detail from one of your conversations and bought a related gift for her.Gifts girls like to get from guys:
Not the message you want to be sending.
Only give gifts on holidays, birthdays, etc. for the first 6 months. After that a random gift every 5 or 6 months. Why so infrequently? Because by giving her a lot of gifts you are spoiling her and she won't appreciate the ones you give her as much. In effect, the more you give gifts, the less special each gift is.
If you can't think of anything then these are some "can't miss" items:
- Down Blanket: The ultimate gift for a woman, she will think about you every night before she goes to bed. Only for very long-term relationships (or very rich people) because they pretty costly and a girl would get freaked out if you bought this for her too soon.
- Picture Frame: Another great way to have her thinking about you all the time. Recommended for the 3-4 month range as long as things are going well.
- Bonsai Tree: A good gift to give if you are in a relatively new relationship. Find one at your local Target.
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